as much as I want to say leave her, I know you can't because of your kiddo. it's hard. and so easy to say for strangers. anyone can see that you are a good person and should have someone by your side that will love you and give you what you need (mentally and sexually). parting would be the best for you, but you don't want to part from your wife especially not from your kid(divorce will always have a certain impact on how much you see your kids). so saying you should has no use. maybe try and get her to go to counsil with you but I doubt if it'll do something.

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all I can say is stay strong really, it's horrible being shot down time after time. i'm in a situation not even close to yours but yea. porn doesn't really do anything anymore and my own sex drive has gone to shit because I know i'm getting rejected probably. she feels disgusted about herself and lets me know whenever I try to touch her. last night she said let's have sex tonight. only to go to sleep with stomach ache(so she said). I also have become extremely low on patience and snap at everything. I hope you can work things out for yourself man.