Ladies, have you ever looked at a man (or woman) and immediately knew your lives were about to intertwine? What ensued?

Cliché I know, but my husband. Literally bumped into him as I was leaving a party and caused him to spill his drink all over my shirt. We locked eyes and there was clearly a spark. I knew I needed him in my life and stayed at the shitty party to talk to him.

Anywho. 10 years on, married, travel heaps, work side by side, laugh all the time and he is my absolute best mate. I am a basket of chaos and anxiety and he is the most chill person I’ve ever met. I haven’t needed meds or had panic attacks in a very long time because he is the calm to my storm. Because he is so calm, he has no sense of urgency so can never stick to a schedule even if it’s important lol so my need for structure gives him the push to get stuff done. We couldn’t be more different types of people but it balances really well.

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