So this lady on Tinder asked me to have sex with her while her husband watches...

The subs you want have lifestyle at the end. So r/hotwifelifestyle and r/cuckoldlifestyle. That’s where discussion and advice occurs. And though the kink isn’t race based there are those that have a BBC fetish.

You vet people the same way you would if you were looking for a tinder hookup. And it’s much like dating. You meet with them at a diner, bar, or coffee shop and see if there is attraction and a good vibe. Sometimes there seems to be one and then later it just goes away or something and no one knows why. Just like dating. But the whole you might get mugged or wake up without your kidneys is really unlikely if you just keep your wits about and meet with them ahead of time. And texting a lot prior to meeting can help too.

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