Not sure why you're getting downvoted either. The moment I heard her speak, this woman reminded me of my mom, who was a depressed/aggressive alcoholic who felt that her husband and children didn't love her. She never burnt our house down but she had said before "I'll burn the whole fucking thing down" and had once threatened to kill me in my sleep when I was 15 (among of a lot of other incidents).

She was also not a stupid person, she was highly educated and was a successful gynecologist. She died three months ago, drinking late at night in our house's backyard. Fell, hit her head and drowned in our pool. Dad found her floating body the next morning. Funny thing is, the night before I had gotten wasted at my roomate's gf's bday party, and had fallen and hit my head (second time in my life this has happened), giving me a mark that I still have. I ended up going home that night to sleep there because I was fucked up, and it was closer than my condo. Mom drove me home the next day, and met a similar but more deadly fate that night.