I definitely wouldn't label her as a victim, this is an age old lonely hearts scam that she probably dose as a side gig,

They'll talk to lads however long they want because it generates revenue through whatever service they use to talk plus personal gifts.

But that lad seems all kinds of delusional, I was watching this in the background the other day and it looked like he hired a private investigator to follow her after she bailed on him and lost it at the investor when he was like "yeah it's a scam" and the lad stormed off like it was complete bullshit.

She definitely needs to get out of that situation, dude seems like one delusional snap away from a mental breakdown.