Language

kinda late to this but you answered your own question in the easiest way possible with the first eight words of this post. there’s also no need to try to force a solid definition or label of what your relationship is if none fit for both you and your partner. and honestly, if you’re an afab presenting person telling people you’re in a same-sex relationship, most will assume you’re lesbian. it’s just the way it is. but you can easily just state as you did in this post that you’re a bisexual person in a relationship with a non-binary person. it doesn’t make sense why you’d need to be specific to others that you and your partner have the same genitals, and that you’re bisexual in the same discussion. if your partner’s genderqueerness is somehow relevant you can just say they were born a girl or assigned female at birth. most labels don’t make sense for a lot of nonbinary people and relationships and that’s okay, we can connect without having to divulge every detail about ourselves or partner.

/r/mypartneristrans Thread