Hey Chineylee! Thanks for the PM! I'm hoping one of the two people who reached out can help make this work. Here's what I'm thinking:

I'm looking to do this on the morning/early afternoon of the 24th. We sadly live far apart right now (she just finished her PhD last year so she had to move universities to do post doc; I'm finishing mine up this year) so we only get to see each other once a month or so; holiday time isn't ideal in my mind, but it's the only time we're with friends and family near by.

What I'm planning to do is get her over to campus and do it in front of Murry hall (where we met; and coincidentally a pretty back drop) on College ave campus; nothing needing any real stalking. There's some benches (on left/right here https://imgur.com/a/Mo1sMBw) that is a good place for someone to just sit and blend in; murry is the building straight down the path.