LDR of 8+ years, not sure what to do.

Thank you for your kind words, I'm confident shes not in a relationship with anyone else...but I really don't understand why she can't step up to this challenge. I've even told her I would help pay for rent if she wants to move out to get out of the house...sometimes I feel if she can't manage to tell the parents about someone she wants to marry...how will she manage being a parent. That might not be a fair assessment...either way it's difficult. She is a wonderful person but damn...I'm not sure if I'm more frustrated at her for not telling them, or at myself for putting up with it. I've always had an excuse on why I could wait...get out of the military...finish school...work...back to school... etc. It's a shame...it truly is. Thanks again for the kind words.

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