LDR boyfriend doesn't like to return sexual pictures

Hahaha I've been this guy before. I had a girl who would do cam shows for me and send pics but I never did anything back. I guess if I have to try and explain why...I'm just insecure about how I look. Really insecure. Most of that stems from my history with girls on the Internet where they would mysteriously stop talking to me after I showed them what I looked like...I was afraid this girl would he like that too. She at least was ok with my face but she always asked for dick pics or something in return and I just wasn't comfortable doing that because I felt like I'd lose her interest in me if my body failed to impress her. Really I just had no confidence. That's just my story anyway not necessarily how your boyfriend is but based on what you've said about him I'm sure it's similar.

For the record this girl did eventually start refusing to show me anything until I showed her myself. And well...that worked. She got me to show and I hated every minute of it but she really liked it and that helped alleviate some of my discomfort. I guess you just gotta give him the confidence to do it for you. Make him feel proud to do it for you. Praise him for it. Just really suck his dick and blow up his ego. One thing to watch out for though. If you stop showing him yourself until he shows you and then he starts to change his behavior towards you in anyway that's a red flag so watch out for that. He may just be manipulating you. Guys can be VERY manipulative online so be careful OP. Hope that helps and don't let anyone take advantage of you or make you do something you're not comfortable doing no matter how much you think you love him. Always remember you haven't met in person yet. You don't know how he truly is until you meet.

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