Well at first I thought he was fantastic looking, he was different to the men I had previously met (different heritage etc) , 8 years older. He had been married previously and that had ended nastily. I used to travel 5 hours on public transport to see him after work on a Friday and he used to go out with his friends and leave me in his house - his reasoning was that if I left him then his mates would still be available. I moved in to his house and started paying rent as the mortgage was high. I worked in a world renowned hospital in a top city (but funnily enough have never seen the sights of the city as I just worked constantly). We would go on little trips to the seaside etc kids came along, - the years have passed He has started drinking alcohol more and more - hes not a fall down drunk but he can put it away -