I've posted on this sub plenty of times before, I just delete my past posts after a while because of my job, I don't want people knowing who I am or anything about my family. The last thing I want is to humble brag on anyone, as far as I know the topic of not allowing stand alone miscarriage/loss posts was brought up with mods and it was decided the sub would continue to allow them. That's perfectly fine by me, I'm just acknowledging that I'm already stressed out enough without reading about all that can go wrong and feeling bad for other people who go through loss. Like I said, someone very dear to me experienced it and it was horrible, I want to deal with it if it comes, not by anticipation.