Lessons from a borderline woman - pt 1 confirmation of TRP truths and red flags of a BPD woman.

I don't know if it's ideal for everyone. It worked for me...but it was about timing too. It was an idea I'd played with in my head (being BP to kill a relationship softly) for a while, but last year I got injured and I was off work for a month...so I used the opportunity to be a dependent, BP boyfriend, knowing full well that women love to kick a man while he's down. It worked better than I expected, and I actually found it kind of helped us both avoid heartbreak. She would have killed herself (or tried again) if I would have just left...so this actually worked out pretty well. I did get cheated on, but it hurts less when you expect it...and kind of drive it there.

The best way to drive the ship called "Relationship" onto the rocks is to give up being the captain, and hand the till over to her. It worked great for me. It's not easy though, if you're used to leading, to give that up. Being injured really helped with that.

It was a shitty injury (that still affects me), but while I was laid up at home, on painkillers...I became the feminist, supportive, yet totally dependent (equal) partner in our relationship...and the combination of my new found pussy, and my injury...I was half the man I used to be, and she played into it perfectly.

You're going out running? OK hun...have fun! Run, run, run!
...but I knew she wasn't going out running.

It sucks, because you'll make them cheat on you, and they won't respect you, but if you need an easy out...it does work.

You don't even have to be any more needy than they are. Just don't lead as much. Ask her where she wants to go for dinner. Be boring. Don't talk...listen. DON'T have an opinion, about anything. Be boring...more. Kiss her a lot, but don't fuck her. PLAY ZELDA. Seriously. If you've ever wanted to play The Legend Of Zelda, and kill a woman's love for you...why not have both at the same time?

I had wanted to play one of the games for years, but hadn't really been single in a while, so I used my month at home to spend time (according to my gf) with a woman named Zelda, instead of her...and it probably did more than anything else to make her run into the arms of another man than anything else. That game is like Spanish Un-Fly. Honestly, if you want a woman to fall out of love with you, when she goes to bed...turn on Zelda. It is almost guaranteed to work...and if she loves Zelda, keep her...because you have found a unicorn that does not exist in nature.

The funniest thing was...Zelda didn't even turn out to be in the game much at all, she was off getting nailed by some dude named Ganondorf.

So...I was super-lame for a month, but kind of enjoying it. Being BP is incredibly easy to do. Just do the laziest possible option, all the time, and you're halfway there. It was nice to have a break from being the man for a while...if you can handle watching a ship go onto the rocks, it can be entertaining doing it from the couch with a drink and some painkillers in your hand.

After the month, when I was healed up and ready to go back to work (and move out), I walked into the kitchen, grabbed her phone ,unlocked it (I had known everything for weeks), and showed her what a cheating slut she was...and that I was moving out, into a place I had already found...and signed papers on. I didn't even need help moving, because I'm a man and I know how to take care of myself...even when I'm injured.

It hit her like a bullet.

It did suck. Breakups always do, but it sucked a lot less than me just leaving her would have sucked. She was rough for a bit, but she just did what she does best (lie to herself)...and eventually she was okay with it. The hamster does work hard, but it gets the job done. It's amazing how quickly it actually took after I got hurt for it to all fall apart. I'd known the password on her phone for almost a year...never even bothered to check it. I didn't even check it while I was hurt. I knew it, but I didn't really actually want to know what was going on until I was ready to pull the trigger. When I decided to look, everything I had thought would happen...happened.

It honestly made it easier on me, because I turned a negative into something positive, and it helped me finally cement that all women are like that, no matter who it is. Once you stop being the captain, you've lost your first mate.

I wouldn't recommend it to anyone who isn't on a lot of painkillers...that also helped a lot, with everything. Didn't need them after I moved out though...funny enough.

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