Indian society hates women

People in general hates other people and love to victimize others.

What is considered fun for men, is considered debauchery for women. Indian society doesn't see women as humans who need to relax and enjoy themselves. If he smokes weed, he is stressed and needs to let loose. If you drink alcohol, you are a characterless bad influence. Remember this hypocrisy and have fun with only those who you trust. If you can afford it, travel outside India to have fun.

Don't do drugs and alcohol in general. If women are forcefully kept out of it, well that's better right. I want men to be forced out it too.

Your biggest asset is your financial independence

That applies for both men and women