Oh, I am sure a lot is on me...

Are we in good shape?

I am in good shape.

Are we interesting people?

I believe I am.

Are we avoiding co-dependency

Yes (that's the right answer, right?)

Are we seeking sex for the right reasons?

Because we like it? What are suppose to be the right reasons?

Are we making our partners feel desired?

I am sure she feels desired

Are we taking care of our partners sexual needs?

When you ask, what do you like, what do you prefer? What do you want me to do ? And are met with, "what you do" "anything you do" and "Just what you do is perfect" they are saying that their sexual needs are being met.

Is communication suffering?

I highly doubt it

Are we connecting outside of the bedroom?

We are, we get along pretty well, it is just sex that is lacking.

Do we talk about sex in a positive way or is it always negative?

How in a negative way?

Are we taking care of our children? Yes we are

Are we keeping up with home tasks? Maybe I can get better at this

Are we giving SOs the time they need to decompress and be themselves, by themselves?

I have ofer her