Oh awesome. And hmm tbh I can see your side of things and well thats part of just being a person with your own way of feeling. Not explicitly cause you're asian like I can see how that would be a turn off and I can also see how that might be weird to some people cause it may be kind of hard to understand or even if people like you do understand.

But like even in that circumstance. There's always that tyoe of guy if they are into that (A white guy saying they like asians or avice versa) and then they themselves get involved in any type of way you want to put it. And then when the white guy (me for example) continues to pursue them. They dissapear or totally just stop.

I don't know what others will say but I CAN say that yeah maybe they got tired of me or maybe they're just not ibterested or were being polite. Perro when it really is not the case. Disappearing on me like that just sends the message you have something better to do. Which is FINE. But its kinda a problem when their profile explicitly says something akin to "So lonely/looking for someone,race detail detail blah blah blah is not an issue" and then do the damn opposite which is usually what I run into which is the part where they stop messaging me. I hate to sound entitled U_U thats not what I'm going for. Tell me you understand?