Out of curiosity though do you spend a lot of time out socialising generally? Like going to groups, mic nights, classes, volunteering, hobby meet ups, nights out with work colleagues, book clubs etc. And do you work on your appearance? Like with in-style haircuts, trendy clothes and maybe working out if you're able.

Do you have a lot of social anxiety at all? I don't think dating apps should be considered the only way (or even a good way) of meeting women, but sometimes i think people use them cuz it cuts out all of the period of getting to know a woman as a friend build a connection and then trying to ask them out that can be nerve wrecking.

I don't think its being "realistic" to say "Every girl is annoyed by my simple presence" unless you are doing something upsetting. But if ya put that label on yourself it feels like you would naturally not be setting yourself up for success. Women are just people, if you're not being weird they won't be concerned with you just being around.