Pronouns are stupid

So how should I refer to you?

I don't have the time or care factor to refer to each precious individual how they want me to.

Is it really THAT difficult to learn how to use they/them for some people? I get that its a hard adjustment to make, it took me a few weeks to get it all the time when I first met an NB, but its basic decency and respect to learn.

If you look like a boy you're a he to me. If you look like a girl you're a she to me.

That isnt something you get a say in. Another person's gender isnt subjective lmao. For example, if you perceive a cis woman as a man and mistakenly call them "He" are you seriously telling me you wouldnt correct yourself?

Is it really "I'll call you what you look like" or is it "IF YOU ARE NB I'll call you what you look like."

If you have them as a part of your bio my instincts tell me you're the sort of person I'll want to steer clear of.

Why? What is so inherently different and horrible about NBs? Kinda just seems like blatant prejudice to me...

Also I'm not some boomer, I'm 23 so...

I dont understand the point of this?