Libido difference’s between me and the wife are becoming an issue

So what I'm gathering is that you are an incredibly selfish lover with a high libido and you expect your wife to get you off constantly even though you admit that in the past you haven't really reciprocated or cared if she cums. And even though she takes care of your three children and has a part-time job in order to financially contribute, because you make a higher annual salary and are responsible for most of the finances you feel that she contributes nothing, which is made worse by her not being your willing fuck hole whenever you want. If you can't see why she isn't clamoring to have sex with you, I don't know what to tell you.

I would also bet that the few chores you mention are the only ones you do and you are the type of person who believes a house with three children is miraculously always clean and that dinners make themselves. I'm guessing that if you don't see something, it just doesn't happen. I'm making a lot of assumptions here, but that's only because what you've written comes across as so completely self-absorbed and shitty. You should probably sit down and have a good think about whether or not the sex you want is sex that has been worthwhile for your partner. And if you've made her actually feel wanted or if you've just made her feel like something to put your dick in. I'm betting if you really think about it, you'll realize that what you have viewed as "trying" hasn't been about your relationship and about sex as partners, but just about your own needs. And that's why you're not getting anywhere.

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