Life is overwhelming

New marriage. You moved away from your family and friends to start a new family of your own. I can't guarantee that this woman will be in your life for the rest of your life, but just know that you aren't facing any of these struggles alone. Furthermore, you're going through all these struggles and the end result will be you and her enjoying life. Keep that end goal in mind anytime you are lost.

Financial struggles. Everyone goes through them, and no matter how deep you get, just know that eventually you won't have them anymore. It's easy to say that when I don't also mention the anxiety you get when you look at how much debt you're in. Just know that one day it will have all been for something. One day your finances will be the last thing on your mind. You just gotta get there, like everyone else.

Insomnia struggles. Get OTC sleeping pills from CVS. Don't rely on it, just take it for one week to get your sleeping schedule on track. Take two every night for a week until your body starts to naturally get tired at that time. If that doesn't work, try anything. Get different pillows, if you can afford it get a different mattress. I think fixing your insomnia struggles is the most important.

Medical struggles. Everyone is going to go through a time where they have medical issues. I don't know the severity of these issues, but just know that you have someone that will be by your side no matter what. They'll care for you if you get bad, and they will try and help you get out of whatever hole you get into.

That's all the advice I have

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