I'd never lift up a girl's skirt at a party. Ever. Would you?

You're still 100% responsible for your actions while you're drunk. I hate when people do some awful shit and then refuse to take responsibility for their own actions because they chose to drink too much.

It sounds like you're saying the grounds for what constitutes sexual assault should be moved based on how much the people at the party have had to drink.

Those guy's lives aren't ruined, they can go on to lead full productive lives, but I bet they don't go around exposing women for a cheap laugh at a party. Tough lesson to learn, but it's one I learned in kindergarten so I don't have a lot of sympathy.