and you can't really kick them out.

Hahahahahahaha, no.

Can, have, will likely have to again: If you join my table for a tabletop game, you leave your bullshit at the door, if you can't leave your bullshit at the door, if you get triggered by people mentioning topics, you are welcome to leave the table, but you are not welcome to remain at the table if you cannot comport yourself to the table standard.

Who sets the table standard?

I do.

Why do I get to set the table standard?

Because I'm the guy who sunk 40 hours in to writing a compelling adventure, working out the maths & making sure that I can nail down any possible deviation in plot that players could conceive of.

I'm also the guy who spent 3 hours the night before setting up the tables, prepping the snacks & cleaning my home so it's presentable when I open it to my players.

As far as you are concerned I'm the father, the son & the mother fucking holy ghost & what I say goes. If you can no comport yourself to my standards then you don't get to play at my table, because if you think you can do better, well you are more than welcome to sink 40+ hours into what is essentially an unpaid part time job.

At least that's how I see it.