I'd go as far as to say if you're attracted to people 17+ you're not a pedophile. 14-16 is bad, but not pedophilia just.... not good. 11-13 is still not pedophilia but also worse than 14-16. 10 and under is pedophilia and absolutely wrong no matter what. Either way, if you're not within 5 years of age with someone who is 14-16 you shouldn't be having sexual or romantic relationships with them, and 5 years is absolute maximum. If they're 11-13, unless you're 14 or younger you probably should back off. If they're 10 and under they shouldn't be doing anything sexual and are too young for romantic relationships. I probably didn't get everything and my age ranges are a little off, but I tried.