Woah, this is a lot... Do you honestly believe that your husband doesn’t look at porn? I think you need to accept that he’s going to look at other women, it’s inevitable.

You obviously have some resentments, insecurities, and possibly abandonment issues. Which I get, you’re in a super vulnerable place right now and it’s probably scary...

Getting revenge or taking it out on your husband makes me believe that you’re going to have a very toxic and volatile relationship, which isn’t good for your daughter.

Maybe seek counseling? Work on your communication with your husband? Set proper expectations and boundaries about what’s acceptable in your relationship?

I don’t know man, hope this is just the hormones talking. I wish you the best....