Happily for me, your opinion carries absolutely zero weight so I don't need to worry.

If you find yourself saying "this isn't the right kind of motivation" more often than you would like, you may just not want to be motivated about whatever it is that you've got going on. I choose to find motivation from as many sources as possible; it's not actually the source that matters, having a goal you identify with is what makes the difference.

Hope you find whatever it is you're looking for, though, and it's presented in the way you need to hear it. Because right now you're the guy on the internet who knows when other people should seek therapy, and that's definitely not going to get you closer to your goals.

Good luck.