Living with your parents post ~20. Why is it odd, and such a big deal in North America despite being a common practice in many other cultures/countries?

mine is different at my age my dad who left me was a father and my mother had left and her family left her presumed father died at 7 and her mother was an alcholic bitch who went off and left her and her uncles and family treated her like shit so basically i feel like at times i want to be more independent like my brother, except he dropped out of school and went to jail etc and had kids. My other brother had job went to college and left. Me I want a job. I'm a single dude but I want to be like other people are fathers and so got their job and are set or are in school and set i cant think for myself in life. Not that i want to have kids but I want to feel like i have some level of control in my life. And also quiet so i can study. The thing is I do love my family. I don't know why we're all seperated why I can't live with my brothers and mother in a big house and I work and finish schooll that would be ideal, but no, I just am so conflcited im going to leave and get a job and find a room and go to school part time. I can't do anything in life now. I'm just seen like a Piece of shit when I'm not Nobody understands because other than family noone knows me or gives a damn about me though i do give a crap about my brothers and mother. And have done nothing wrong. Though at times i wish i wish i was on my own. Today. Nevermind. I don't rant, but really Im just the type of person who would do better living on their own. though im a nice person you know i say alot of stuff like i dont care for the person you really bother me i dont like you, but its because people seem to piss me off. I really don't like people everyones absent for the most part and everything i do is just a waste what the fuck am i going with my life ive been homeless forever and im trying to get a degree but if im going to be on my own i want quiet but i dont know i really have no purpose being in a world where i aint appreciated by noone, and live a life with no accomplishments. But im the type ofg person honestly if i lived on my own i would be at my best but i might drink and just drink the whole bottle because im poor and cant really find anyone to make the days seem nice and because itd be stuck on my mind how i could never make the happy family mold.

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