Long distance boyfriend

? I think you're missing the point, she's not mentally well. She's put her own needs above his for his whole life, she refused to take him to the doctor for months. Guess what it was? Cancer. He's not going to get a gambling or drinking problem, I know that for a fact. I'd help motivate him if he became 'lazy', and of course I'd still love him if he got disfigured, I love his soul, his personality, not his body. She's not fit to care for him and never was, it's just a matter of time before he hits 18 so he can move back, but he can't get a job where he lives now, hasn't got money to get a new phone. I don't think she'd still love him, she has no empathy for him.

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