Thank you commending me, my childhood was fucked. Father is prison, mom always working so there was things I missed growing up. So when we had our son it gave me the opportunity to give him the childhood I craved and needed. As far as the therapy yeah we've been doing it, mostly the wife. I guess the whole Freud thing about Irish and being psycho analyzed was right because I don't like it lol but wife definitely has shit to work out. What is fucked up from the text messages was wife would tell that snake things she wished I would say I or do and then he would do it. He used my wifes words on how she wanted me to be to benefit from. He even threatened suicide a few times when she would tell him she needs to stop this charade and come clean to me. Just a total shit show