Longtime guy friend sent me a dick pic…why am I SO upset about it?

Two things.

The trend of being horrified of dick pics is modern trust me. (Been on the internet before the majority of the world.) It seems like a new standard and laws have caught up to agree. These days a lot of people are completely brain washed by social media and literally talk in narratives they regurgitate from their feeds or friends. Most people aren’t adverse to most things they say they hate. They are just desperate to be politically correct because social status, income and influence matters to people. Now how silly is it we are the only clothed animals and evolved society to the point we collectively believe what we are taught and choose to conform to those standards for some reason… some cultures are too much for some. Others can literally never be too little. At what point will we realize all these silly social standards and learned behavior in the grand scheme of things don’t matter. Are we over sexualized as men? Our penises are offensive why? We are seen as predators because of what technology evolved us to? We were always savages… Why aren’t naked women seen as offensive. Why is it even offensive to send a picture of your body? Because we were taught to believe in morals, laws and socially acceptable behaviors. But who really decided in the first place? Clothing went from warmth and protection… to suppression, uniform and expression….

2.) You made it clear you don’t like him but entertain him why? This is not about asking for it or not. But why was he even in your life? He’s a state away and you don’t want to marry him.. you don’t want to date him… so maybe he felt mixed signals? I can strongly assume he thought his dick was enough to change your mind. It works with some but not others. (Yes actually, but bring on the downvotes!) Was it worth going for broke and taking the chance? Do you think he expected your reaction? Cause that’s what he was looking for. A reaction for sexual gratification and an ego driven feeling of accomplishment. Unfortunately he completely miss judged the situation and sexually harassed you. But you had him on an app literally invented for the exact purpose he used it for… like imagine going on tinder to date totally seriously… net luck heading to the local bars… at least you can get a true perspective when you meet in person in public… but yea. This is a two way street in my opinion. I’m pretty sure you can choose who you want to be in contact with you and I think next time start there. Because we all want to get mad when our car breaks down. But how many of us will learn and not make the same mistakes with maintenance, used car inspection and proper research. Yes even new cars break down. But damn that range rover looks good…

/r/TooAfraidToAsk Thread