Looking for some perspective and of course advice

sorry bruh its only a text, not some beacon of perpetual futility the universe is dropping at his feet. i understand the context just fine. seems you're jumping to just about every negative conclusion you can think of, none of which will help move this along. that is, if there's anything to move along in the first place

im 36. ive gone through just about every permutation and combination of social interactions you can imagine. some good. some great. some forgettable. some downright embarrassing. ive been prince charming and ive been the awkward creepy guy too. you can ghost me or blow up my phone for 2 days straight. i dont care. its all in good fun. everyone just trying to make their night a little more exciting. aint no life and death here man. no need to treat it as such. just relax and have some fun. bitterness and hopelessness is the alternative. nobody wants that. its not a good look

the type of enthusiasm you are expecting from people you engage in text is exactly what OP is trying to gauge right now. not sure how you're missing this. and without knowing OPs last text we have to assume he's still in the green. so he gets to send another text

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