I am p new to dating.. spent a total of about two months on the apps following the end of my decade+ years marriage. I didn't really put any pressure on kissing, but I broke the touch barrier if things were going well.. I've been physically intimate with six of the eight women I've met from the apps -- and one of the ones I wasn't has told me since that she'd have been down if I made the move (she was a tourist)...
...but I've never made the first move. So far I've just let the women do that part, and it's gone well.
Of the six, I had sex with four. All but one, call her JP, either did or was down to hook up on the first day (one was right after my marriage ended and I had no condoms/wasn't quite ready).
That all said, I hung out w JP maybe 6 times before anything happened between us.