Have you ever been pregnant? I wouldn't value your opinion on the physiological response one has to creating life. You could postulate your theory and research all you want but you can't get the right idea on what it's actually life to be pregnant. I'm talking specifically someone that has a tough pregnancy with morning sickness. It's an actual disorder and while most women are fine this does affect some harshly.

My judgment comes from the fact that OP was so disgusted at her friends physical symptoms like not being able to hold water, lethargic, and an all around feeling of misery that she didn't even want to be her friend. I'm shocked at the level of disregard for someone that's close to you. We can all joke about pregnancy and it might seem like an innocuous act because everyone we know has done it and derp derp derp it must be so fucking easy but those are blanket statements you are all making.

I was astounded by OP's lack of concern for her FRIEND that she's planning a huge event with. I don't even want to get up from my bed when I'm pregnant let alone plan a wedding.

*insert obligatory response here "Well you shouldn't have got pregnant and planned a wedding *derp derp"

not the point. Life happens. What I do expect from people is some understanding when it comes to this even if you decide it's not a life for you.

While this is your subreddit and you guys can circle jerk all you want on these inane topics you have stop being so vapid concerning these issues. All of you are commenting on an experience that you don't fundamentally understand.