I lost weight and I feel incredible amounts of glee rejecting people who treated me terribly in the past

First of all, congratulations!

Second, I get it. A few years ago I started losing weight and overall improving my looks. There's one person specifically who tried to befriend me again even though she treated me like shit for years back in middle school. At first I let it fly and was polite but she kept acting like we used to be best friends or something and wouldn't take my hints (I was super uncomfortable, and she was very nosy), so I eventually had to tell her pretty bluntly that we were never friends and that I didn't want to have her in my life or talk to her and never will. I was pretty harsh and felt a bit bad, but at the same time it felt good. She failed to realize that I'm same person, I just look different. I haven't forgotten the way she treated me, plus she never apologized and she doesn't seem to have changed at all so... yeah. It felt good to reject her and tell her exactly how I feel about her. People who are only nice and want to be friends when you're looking good to them are vain and don't deserve you imo.

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