Lots on my mind. Not feeling good. Looking for some wisdom.

I'm 28. A decade isn't much chronologically, but it feels like a lot when I think back to where I was at 18. So much has happened to me in the last 10 years dude.

If I could offer you a piece of advice it would be to enjoy what you're doing right now, and if you don't, figure out what needs to change to make that happen. Life doesn't always adhere to what you've planned, so be ready to make revisions.

Personal opinion: I think you shouldn't let the ex get you down. Like, at all. If she's willing to sleep with someone just to get your attention (or worse, becauseshe needs the attention), she's trouble anyway. This happened. I'm sure it stings a little, but you're gonna meet so many new people, and it's gonna fade away before you know it. Just try not to forget how you felt about this moment when the next one comes, or you'll find yourself there again. Also, your class may not be as antisocial as you think. Sometimes people just have to get familiar before they open up. Orientation is awkward. They're probably pretty cool people.

You have so much cool shit happening right now, from my perspective. Embrace it.

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