LPT: Be careful of 'friends' who bitch about others behind their backs yet are lovely to their faces, you're probably not the exception.

Oh yeah this totally happened to me with someone I considered one of my best friends. I actually found her phone while we were at a house party and she had a text from one of my other so called best friends being like 'I know wtf heatedcarseats!' They were bitching that I spent too much time with my bf, was no fun and were just being pretty bitchy about me via text so who knows what convos they had about me outside of text. Anyway I put her phone back down and told her I was leaving the party. I wanted to cry but I just went home and just thought about things. I realised that I had no right to be angry because I had joined in on both of their bitching about each other so of course they were doing it about me to. In the end I stayed friends with them. Only I know had clear eyes on what our friendship really was and that was basically just drinking wine and bitching on a night out or drinking coffee and bitching in the morning. It's cathartic to no longer care what they say about me but yeah it was a real crap time when I realised some of my closest friends were complete bitches and so was I.

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