Lucid dreamers of reddit, what do you usually do in your dreams?

Oddly enough my friend just passed a week ago today & I've been having reoccurring dreams with him in it.. this is just a breif summary but the most peculiar thing was the night he passed. I had him and his soon to be fiance who also is a very close friend of mine in my thoughts & meditation because she has a baby due next month... I had a dream I was in her apartment cleaning a mess made on her kitchen floor... with a different friend of mine who makes a living as a mortician... I asked him why we were in Saras apartment.. I then proceeded to ask Sara where Dan was and she just walked away in the dream... I asked John my mortician friend why we were in Saras apartment and again asked where Dan was... I woke up to a vibrate on my phone in real time. It was John asking me to call and speak with him immediately. So I did & it was him delivering me the news that my friend Dan had relapsed and overdosed... I should also mention that I am 500 miles away from home because I made the decision to go back into sober living & get back on my few about 5 weeks back when I overdosed... and the night of when i heard the news I found these crystals randomly outside sweeping. Citrine and blue agate or apitite... I forget.. but I know the blue one is his favorite because he would always wear it. it was a charm Sara customized and gave him sometime last year. so anyway.. I know that is not so much relevant to lucid dreaming.. but it gave me comfort hearing you spend time with your friend in your sleep.

I got my head stir crazy whether it's coincidence or paranormal... I'd like to believe it's the later. None the less I'm too frightened to tell my friend who lost her soul mate this experience because for one I sound crazy as fuck... and secondly we are all still grieving his loss.. anyway. Thank you.

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