I’m (30m) feeling really lost in my relationship with my girlfriend (28f) and it’s making me feel so lonely and sad. I don’t know who to talk to about it.

Thanks for the response… I agree, I’m seeing all kinds of red flags. But she seems to try to reassure me that there’s nothing wrong and it feels as if when she senses I’m feeling put off or close to a breakup she tries to latch onto me even harder.

I hate to break up, it’s been nice until recently. It sucks, I feel like 4 months were wasted. I feel so confused. It hurts that she just won’t talk. It kind of in a way feels like a high school romance. It’s weird. I don’t know.

You’re definitely right I do deserve someone who respects boundaries and can communicate. I just worry if I did anything wrong myself and what I could have done better.

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