Why is m@$7ur8471ng so looked down upon?

I grew up in the bible belt (why does my phone want to capitalize this?!). There was a lot of judgment about it. My first boyfriend felt guilty and shameful for it, and for anything other than missionary sex. I had already started questioning everything I was taught prior to that, but that really made me have intense upset about the judgment surrounding something that’s normal and healthy (so long as it’s not an addiction).

As far as sex workers etc., there will always be harsh judgment. I’ve sold sex before and will be starting a profile on a selling site with content when I’m ready, but someone has said he has more credibility than I do because of my past. His ‘deviance’ and stalking is something people don’t know; I might possibly be the only one who really knows him more than surface level now. But if you look at us “on paper” that’s true about me being the “deviant one” according to society. In other words, I shouldn’t be believed about the stalking and am considered disposable because of the sex work and my past with men. ….It’s always left out what takes a person to get to those types of “lifestyles”; trauma and poverty often playing a big role.

“Twerkers” are just having fun and being goofy/sexy. That’s always fun, but holier than thou people want to control everything and everyone so anything sex related or seen as such is shamed.

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