The answer is you, you are basing your own value on what other human beings thinks of you and in your case girls..

First step is to really take a close look at yourself in the mirror and ask: "Is this the best version of myself?"

Make a plan.
How can you start saving money?
How can you be more healthy?
How can you start developing your own hobbys and interests more?
What kind of friendships do i want in my life?
What gives me energy?
No excuses, find solutions and you don't need anyone in your life for this, because in the end of the day.
The only one that can make you happy is yourself and no one else.

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