So im going to disagree and say there are plenty of girls out there who will be attracted to you. You arent ugly, but you have a very specific look that girls definitely express interest in online. But, I think they will mostly be younger women, you will probably have to go to specific settings to meet them, and you will probably have to approach them first. If you really want to avoid having to approach people in person, your best luck online would probably be Instagram rather than a dating site, or something more niche like Fetlife.

IRL you should probably look at going to cons (I've seem speed dating at conventions before!), and maybe clubs/meetups for anime, video games (fighting game scene is friendly), or card games. LGBTQ+ meetups would probably be a good place to meet people also.