Yeah I thought I fucked up but then I looked into it and realised I was right

I never said I haven't used sarcasm before I'm just saying you or I shouldn't use it because it's not saying what you mean

it's saying something else to convey what you actually mean and in that way it isn't direct

and not being direct has to be more passive than being direct

So yes you're being aggressive but you are also being a little passive

Also the thing with the lie and going back on it wasn't that bad because I thought that you knew that I was lying about it being sarcastic because you clearly had me

So I didn't think that I was actually lying and trying to get away with it

I was just joking

But then I went back on it because I had a change of mind

There's nothing wrong with going back on something after your mind has been changed

That's actually a manly thing to do because I wasn't afraid to look stupid

Sorry for the confusion

...silly goose Lol