I’m dating my ex’s friend, and my boyfriend hasn’t told my ex about our relationship yet

I think he's doing the right thing by wanting to do this in person, but I can also understand your frustration. Could you maybe give it another bit of time (as you suggested), and then sit down and mention exactly what you've said here: That you understand why he wants to do it in person, but you're starting to feel excluded from things. Ask if you can set some sort of timeframe for Brandon talking to Cam, not as an ultimatum but so that you feel more comfortable, and maybe suggest that Brandon could reach out and ask for a 1 on 1 hangout if the timing doesn't work out organically. Maybe they could go out for coffee, or have a video game night, or go see a game depending on what they like to do.

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