That isn't a role reversal, though? Role reversal would be a man's legs on her lap. Grabbing someone's thigh has a much more sexual and romantic connotation that someone putting their legs on your lap.

>If she felt comfortable enough to sit like that l wonder what else was going on.

This sounds exactly the same as victim blaming. "If the guy felt he could grope her, she must have been doing something to make him feel like that." Just flip the genders.

This is pretty funny, tbh. If the genders were flipped, you would all be saying the man was harassing her by putting his legs on her lap.

The sexist double standards on this are really something.