I’m not “hot” or “drop dead gorgeous” but guys are still somewhat drawn to me...

I've noticed patterns in the amount of attention I get. First off, I get a lot more attention outside of the southern U.S. and a lot lot more people interested in me if I'm in Europe. Secondly, more attention will come my way off apps than when I'm on and I think it has to do with my personality. Online, I can't compete with white muscle bros but offline any douchery is gonna be much more off-putting and something about the way I carry myself (don't take myself seriously, joke around a lot, tease). It does help that I have a perpetual flat belly. Types that I attract: old men, superchubs, guys that are bi or heteroflexible, alterna'mos, guys who grew up in the working class, and extremely gender typical men. Also, tragically total bottoms.

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