I’m so tired of losing to them

No, the problem is that you don't understand how to effectively handle secrets. Why are you testing for oh my yogg when you are not going to use your expensive spell the same turn? Sure there are situations that call for that, warlock on turn 7 that is planning to play twisting nether next turn and doesn't have 0 mana spells (maybe he should saved that coin) and if palladin plays another secret the same warlock will have to decide if he needs to risk twisting into potential yogg or not and sometimes the optimal play is to play twisting because otherwise you are going to lose anyway. Trying to disarm all secrets as soon as possible (and many people do that) is a misplay - some players can play entire game without procing 3/4 or when they do they already have plan how to handle it.

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