I’m too attracted and horny for my girlfriend

I love everything about her from her pretty face, perfect body, perfect downstairs, her lips against mine, and the way she sounds when she moans.

Any chance agree feels a little objectified? Sounds like you're mostly focused on physical appearance/sensations here. That can be a major turn off.

I still can’t help but be constantly horny for her?

Have you read “Facing Love Addiction“? If you can't control your attention enough to be able to focus on things other than making love, it's impossible to be a desirable sex partner. Over tone, it will feel like she's giving you sex rather than making love. Nobody who knows about synchrony sex or magnificent sex wants sex like that. It's simply not satiating. If you never get your sexual appetite filled, you'll always feel sexually hungry.

afterwards, I find myself thinking about for days.

Thinking about it like “OMG that was amazingly satisfying to the point I don't know if I could go again any time soon“ or thinking about it like “That was amazing and i want to do it again ASAP“. The first is like cheeseburger sex, and the latter is like to gourmet steakhouse sex. Unless she's really need to sex or very sexually immmature and inexperienced, she's going to lose interest in cheeseburger sex quickly.

I hate how in love and attached I am to her

Are you sure? it sounds like you're too preccupied with wanting to have sex with her to have any love for her. It sounds like you desire sex and sharing pleasure with her because she's beautiful, but I'm not hearing anything about loving her.

If you just want more sex, make them sex better for her:

  • Sexual Intelligence
  • Magnificent Sex
  • She Comes First
  • Hold Me Tight

If you want to love her, the first step is making it more about her rather than about you and your needs.

Good luck!

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