[M20] Being the smarter person in a relationship is that something women to some extent want?

I am sorry for not being clear enough but she is the one saying am smarter than her and I get that compliment a lot from everybody our studygroup. I try to stay humble about it saying I solved this problem becuase I study extra last night or was just lucky that I came across a similar problem in the past and saying she would also have solved it if she tried harder. Never have I talked her down or saying I am supperior than others.

She was a fantastic student in high school from what I heard but now she is having a hard time keeping up in uni and asking me to help her everytime when we study togheter and I gladly do. Me often knowing the answer or being far ahead is why I receive that compliment and got the smart kid label from her and the others.

I do believe she is the one that wants to exceed, be the great a student and top of the class like she was in high school. Solving the harder problems on her own and I try to encourage to do so.

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