I (M23) lost a year of my life because I had a crush on my co-worker (M22)

Some guys are just morons. Ask me - Back when I was studying in university, I had a friend in my class who did sweet talks to me. I helped him a lot than any ordinary friend would do. He had kissed me on the forehead sometimes and he often comments how I am his lover. He even asks me why I don't sleep with him and we often did sleep together (not in that way). I am not even effeminate and I haven't felt that way with any other guys in my entire academic career but he came off as different. He has grabbed my hips and waist too. He has tried to fuck behind me whenever he gets into that position. We stayed in touch even after our graduation in the same way. One fine day, when I went to his home, he sucked one of my fingers in the late evening! That same night, I couldn't control and I made my move a little. He did seem to enjoy but the very next day, I did not know what came over him. He texted "Don't keep texting me often." and something along those lines. It was a huge slap on my face and I ended up not talking to any of my classmates. I stopped talking with him. If you are not sincere, then why do all that? Such shallow, supposedly 'funny' guys are just infuriating.

Try doing all that with the opposite sex, how would he/she feel? Morons.

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