M24, sex is confusing.

Cool :) I work mostly the same way, except with both sexes (that could be important).

My experience? Its no problem, but the way you have sex will likely change in time (but I think that's normal).

Itll probably take more time to "set up". Getting you both in the mood, making each other feel relaxed, special, cared for, and then sex. Instead of the rush you have now. Itll still be a expression of intimacy and lovely feelings and so on.

In my relationship it went: rush (everything worked great) -> bored ( automatic intimacy started going, things became too repetitive) -> working hard on emotional intimacy, caring, support, changing the way we had sex etc -> best sex, mental and physical, but it always takes work to get there.

Essentially all the things they stereotypically say you need to do to "get a girl in the mood".

Its also funny that you mention that kissing always gets things going, I have the same thing, up to the point I prefer it above a lot of supposedly sexual acts.

Now the less ideal part: If you do get the whole ripping of clothes desire, itll be a struggle I imagine. I have such periods, and then is when things get tough if Im with the "wrong" gender.

If you feel heteroromantic / homosexual, I would tbh try to see if you can get romantic feelings / that level of intimacy with men, since a constant struggle with "ripping guys clothes off" will kill you inside if you cant.

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