3. I(M27) just discovered about my wife's(F29) secret sexual past , I am miselable ...

I(M27) just discovered about my wife's(F29) secret sexual past , I am miselable and don't know what to do!

Your insecurities surrounding sex are astronomical. Your wife did nothing wrong. You invaded her privacy and what? Now you're jealous of what happened before she even met you? You enjoyed the sex, the intimacy and shared a passionate and healthy love life. How is that different now? Nothing has changed!! She's still the same person! You need to deal with your own issues and stop taking your insecurities out on your poor wife. If it were me, I would never have dealt with your immature and childish "cold shoulder"-"silent treatment" b.s. I'd be well moving on by now.

You should be embarrassed and shamed for making her feel like complete crap because of YOUR percieved inadequacies. Apologize to your wife before she wises up and leaves.

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