M29 married to F30 for 7+ years, doctors say she can’t have kids. I feel fucked.

Yes i do know how IVF actually works. I have had the process describe to me from 2 different clinics. It isnt natural. They take sperm and eggs and make them meet. This is not natural selection or survival of the fittest. The strongest sperm is supposed to be the strongest out of millions of competitors. Not hand selected.

I might be a bit selfish but why would I want to care for another persons kid when they shouldnt have had it in the first place. Maybe they were raped by their uncle or some shit but majority of adoptions are from fucking lazy parents and dont know how to pull out and are stupid

Don't try to convince him. He's angry, he's frustrated, and he's ignorant/prejudiced af.

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